SEEKING SOLACE IN SOLITUDE

 

Nurturing a state of solitude imparts a unique sense of tranquility, free from sorrow and sadness. It involves a continuous flow, where one's essence and individuality remain in constant motion. Uninfluenced by conventional norms, a worldly person might not attribute duality or communal attributes to loneliness. However, the omnipresence and compelling force of nature create a dynamic wherein individuals become mere puppets, driven by the forces of attention and notice.

In this intricate dance, nature surrounds and compels humanity, weaving together two formidable powers that transform individuals into beings seeking attention and connection. Some, pushed to extremes, resort to heinous acts such as suicide, often justifying their actions under the guise of "true love." This perspective, however, is considered delusional. Terms like love, infatuation, and attractiveness may sound enchanting in literature, but when applied to practical life, they not only lose their allure but also lead to the dissolution of one's true self, replaced by concepts like Fana fi Al-Ishq, Fana fi al-Muhabbat, and Fana-e-Ghir instead of Fana-fi-Allah.

The true essence of love remains immeasurable. While tales of faithful lovers from the past, such as Laila Majnun, Shireen Farhad, and Heer Ranjha, perpetuate the illusion of love, their immortalization in the realm of love stories remains uncertain. Contemporary youth, influenced by societal narratives, find themselves captivated by virtual love, the unknown, and the inexplicable.

The fear of loneliness often propels individuals to seek companionship, regardless of the nature of the chosen companion. Whether the chosen companion possesses a majestic disposition, eloquence, or surpasses in rank and glory, the belief persists that one cannot rebel against nature but can become a resilient soldier of solitude. This solitude, rather than a duplicitous companionship causing trouble for others, offers a myriad of benefits—improving skills, providing opportunities for relaxation, and relieving daily tensions. Hence, in the grand scheme of things, embracing solitude is deemed a far superior state than entangling oneself in a deceitful relationship that brings no solace to anyone involved.

Dated: July 4, 2023